Hello guys, what’s up? My name is Pradnya, and last night, I had a really weird but quite interesting dream. The dream was about my mom. In that dream, we and our family went on a vacation trip. We sat in a popular hotel, having our delicious dinner. Everyone in my family was busy talking while I got a call from my school friend. She told me that she saw me in a hotel where we were also staying that night. After that, she insisted on meeting. I got permission from my mom to meet her. But unfortunately, no one can be possessive like Desi moms. Mom said, “Fine, but I am also coming with you”.
So, as decided, we both went up to meet her. As soon as we reached up there, I saw a beautiful girl stand in front of us. My friend changed herself in every aspect, like appearance, style, and communication. My mom got nervous. She blessed my friend and said, ”I will wait outside and order some food so you both can talk nicely here”.
Mom went outside, and we started talking. My friend’s name was Sharvari, and we talked so much. During our conversation, I learned that she has been working for a very popular company. She used to be very skinny, but now she was looking damn hot. Her voice was so elegant. She married just last year. In short, she was looking insanely perfect. While talking, she said, “Hey Pradnya, your mom used to look very different; now she is exactly looking just like you! just kidding.” We laughed, and I changed the topic. After talking with her, I came out and saw my mom sitting on the chair. Her eyes filled with tears. I asked her worriedly,” Mom, what happened? Is everything okay? I am here for you. Tell me, why are you crying so badly?
My mom answered, “Beta, I exactly wanted to be like her; I wanted to be independent; I wanted to be fit. Your friend is like the person I imagined myself in my 20s. But see, I was not able to be like it. I replied, “Mom, you are beautiful. Just be with me; I will do karishma on you; next morning, we will go to the gym; we will go to the beauty parlor; and we will do everything you ever wanted to be; don’t cry, just put in some effort.” And in a few seconds, I opened my eyes. The dream ends.
I called my mom in the early morning and told her about my last-night dream. I told her how she wanted to be, and she can still be whatever she wants. But her reply was absolutely opposite in real life. She said,” I am not interested in these things. Now I just want to be loved by you and your brother. After the phone call, I started thinking deeply, and I realized that in that dream, my mom said I wanted to be like my friend. Why did she not consider me here instead of that friend? Then I again remembered my friends dialogue in that dream. Your mom used to look very different; now she is exactly like you. Boom…! I figured it out. In the dream, that was not my mom; she was my future self. Her desires in that dream are exactly the same as my desires at present. In a nutshell, my sub-conscious mind is telling me to do desired things right now, in the present. Otherwise, you will regret it in the future. Your future self will cry in the corner if you do not work on things on time. This is my lesson from my last dream.
In fact, every young woman wants this to happen. We women forget to live for ourselves in the process of loving our families. So prioritize your work and passion first. At the end, what stays with you in life forever is your “dignity”.